HERE ARE OLD damaged PICTURES.
But my 2013 post showed things I had yet to learn.
Though my grandfather didn't tell me about her...nor about his own upbringing, I believed what someone in the family told me, or wrote somewhere. That the Rogers children (Auntie Annie Lou as well as my dad's father, had been orphaned and raised by cousins. Not true.
Their mother was still alive and they were even living with her by census data in Galveston, Texas. She lived until 1924. I just noticed on her death certificate that she wasn't buried in Galveston, but in Huntsville, where her husband's family had lived. Now I can see if I can find her grave there.
However, there is a letter stating that the cousin did have guardianship of the youngsters, written many years later by my grandfather.
And he and my father were indeed given the middle name of Elmore, but I was able to chase down the Revolutionary War hero of that name, Elmore Ross, who was an ancestor of their cousin with whom they had guardianship. I never found any census data showing they lived with the cousin. He even lived in another town in Texas. I think he had been a mentor to my grandfather, at least.
My grandfather's own father did die when he and his sister were ages 1 and 2. And their mother did move from her own town of Waverly to Galveston. I have no information on how she lived, but it might have been pretty tough in a big port town at the end of the 19th century. Remember Galveston was the big shipping port before Houston ever became one. So perhaps the children were living with that cousin some of their lives, just not in records that I've found yet.
In the last two years I've spent several hundred hours learning about my ancestors, and how many of us make mistakes over on Ancestry DOT com. That's why my own genealogy is private at this point. My cousin, Patricia Rogers (also a descendent of George Elmore Rogers, Sr.) has made her genealogy public however, so there are records on it which are available for other searchers. My records in my blog do contain my own mistakes.
I'm posting these for the theme at Sepia Saturday this week...HERE.
Quote for today:
There is an endless net of threads throughout the universe. The
horizontal threads are in space. The vertical threads are in time. At every
crossing of the threads, there is an individual, and every individual is a
crystal bead. And every crystal bead reflects not only the light from every
other crystal in the net, but also every other reflection throughout the entire
universe.
Rig Veda
The 1904 skiff shot could have been taken here in Maine -- but I'm guessing it's Galveston -- those long slender oars indicate ocean rowing (lake ones are shorter and fatter); it's a great shot -- damaged or not!
ReplyDeleteGood thing you know your oars! I didn't know that.
DeleteThe picture is like the genealogy, in that both are hazy and fragmentary.
ReplyDeleteExactly! The fuzziness just never seems to go away, and those gaps never get filled in. We are left wondering.
DeleteI know the shot is 1904 but is it dated 1804? Speaking about errors in the records. I find so many at Ancestry.com and they are accumulating so fast! Nice old photo - don't you love it when the information was written on the front. That's what the sky background was for.
ReplyDeleteGood to see that Mary Lou was an actine girl, not just posing primly. Ancestry perpetuates a lot of mistakes, when people who don!t know any better just copy blindly from other people's trees that can very often be wrong. I use Ancstry.com for the revords, not the trees. The expression 'you can't see the wood for the trees' might be appropriate here :-)
ReplyDeleteIn the little bit of past family searching I've done, I've found some Lulus of mistakes & misinformation. You have to be so careful. There have been times when I've been elated to find information about an ancestor, only to learn later that the information couldn't possibly have been correct, & there I am - back to square one again (sigh). It can be so rewarding on the one hand, but also so frustrating at times.
ReplyDeleteIsn't that decade long gap between censuses frustrating sometimes. Shall we start a worldwide petition that censuses have to be taken every year?
ReplyDeletewhat a tangled web we weave....but fascinating!
ReplyDeleteI've become so frustrated with Ancestry that I have given in up.
ReplyDeleteI believe that the 'damaged' nature of the skiff photo has enhanced its appearance.
I love that old yellowy-brown of the "damaged" photo. I can almost feel the brittle paper. Yet the image is right there, so plain to see. And a name and date - perfect!
ReplyDeleteSo interesting -- and I love the quote!
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